Compliments release feel-good chemicals like dopamine, which can boost your mood and confidence. For many students, hearing something positive from a teacher, friend, or parent can motivate them to keep working hard. Whether it’s a quick comment on someone’s outfit in the hallway, or a shoutout for a class presentation, a compliment can go a long way. Words that are true and thoughtful can totally change someone’s day.
Compliments work best when they’re honest and specific. It shows interest in their effort and not just the result, making it come off more meaningful. Being observant when it comes to what students are doing can easily make a compliment more fitting for an individual, going deeper than just the surface level. Mary Harkey, 9, talks about how important it is to give more sympathetic attention to someone before making a comment.
“Give compliments based on the work someone is doing so that they feel more appreciated and confident in what they are doing,” Harkey said.
Teachers play a big role in how students see themselves. A quick compliment on someone’s efforts can encourage someone to keep trying, especially if they are struggling. Luke Deutshaman, 11, explains how he believes teachers encouraging their students through words is crucial to the environment and overall student performance.
“If teachers are even accidentally bringing us down, then it’s not going to make a good environment and will restrict people from being themselves,” Deutshaman said.
Although it may seem that the Eureka halls are filled with friendly students, Mary Harkey talks about how she thinks there is always room for improvement when it comes to the positivity radiated off of students. She talks about how it is important to be welcoming to everyone since kind words stick with people and could easily make someone more comfortable or happy.
“We need to give each other more compliments, because you never know if someone is feeling bad about themselves and just needs a little cheer up,” Harkey said.
The simple act of offering a compliment can create a more supportive and encouraging atmosphere when at school. By recognizing and celebrating other achievements, it doesn’t only boost individual self esteem but can contribute to a broader culture of kindness and respect. By starting the practice now, it can lead to a more positive and productive learning environment for all.
“Even just a small compliment immediately puts a smile on my face and sets my mood to be good for the rest of the day,” Deutshaman said.